One of my favorite things to do to relax and exercise my brain is to play chess.
My life at the moment is exactly like the game of chess. I have these different levels of assets represented by the chess pieces. The most powerful one being "character", The Queen. The King represents my long term life goals and success, who without, the "game" would serve no purpose.
Before I start pushing pawns, I plan, thinking a few steps ahead. I also prepare for a Plan B for "what if..." situations. Sometimes the opponent, in this case, life obsticals, challenges, enemies, health issues, bad habits, etc. make an unexpected move, forcing you to change your plan. Have an escape route, learn to adapt, react, and keep fighting.
There always comes a time in both chess and the real world when you have to make sacrifices. For me, this is one of the most challenging parts. "Would giving up this, be worth gaining that?" The wrong sacrifice can knock you back a few steps and/or even cost you the game. Think smart, and avoid taking the bait and temptation.
Let's review:
- Be in control. It's YOUR life.
- If you're not in control, or fall apart, GAIN control.
- Think ahead.
- Take responsibility for your actions. We all make mistakes. Own up to them and keep going!
- Look at the 'board' from different perspectives. Watch the whole board, the bigger picture.
- Avoid temptation
- Never, ever, ever, give up. There will be times when you're down. Pick yourself back up, and fight til the end.
Playing chess, I've learned that there are many types of players. The two that stand out most to me are the players that play to avoid being checkmated, and those who play to win. I don't know about you, but I play to win.
There is one difference though.
In the game of chess, if you lose, you can line your pieces up and start all over again. In life, well, you only get one shot. You only get one life. Make it a good one.
Queen to G7, checkmate ++